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Wednesday, June 15, 2005

冷たくなってきた 2

そう。 どういうわけか、気になってきた。 

どうしてかな。。? 彼のアプローチがぜんぜんsmoothじゃなくて、うまくできなくて恥ずかしい顔をしていた。実は、smoothな人がきらい。私もsmoothなんかじゃないからね!
それで、問題。赤の他人に遊びに誘われるときはいつも断って、その彼のことを気にしない。 でも、その彼ら、ほんとにろくでなし?そういう人たちの中にいい人がいない? 普通は、すぐに見限るけど、たぶんそうするといいチャンスも見逃すかもしれない。

どうすればいいの?

5 Comments:

  • My brain is busted from trying to read your page. Sorry for not replying in Japanese. I think you should just feel flattered by the fact that you got hit on and leave it at that. In the end it depends on what your looking for. If what you want is a good guy, then maybe the dood offering to take you to a hotel the first night you meet isn't him. But if it's just for fun and the dood is hot, then why not? Me personally, I wish I had the balls to say to a stranger,"や、baby、あんたの家に遊びに行こうか" I'd have so much confidence it'd be coming outta my butt.

    By Anonymous Rick, at 1:42 PM  

  • Hey Rick! sorry for busting your brain..
    Yeah, the guys who try the beer/hotel line really do get smacked/sarcastic-ed into shame. What I especially loved about the "や、baby、あんたの家に遊びに行こうか" guy, is the way he looked so genuinely shocked and puzzled by the fact I'd said no. Lots. Like, who would ever say yes to that chat up line?? How has it *ever* worked in the past for him to look that surprised when it crashed and burned? Idiot.

    I just don't want to tar everyone with the same brush - i have a hard enough time meeting people (work majorly antisocial hours, bleugh) - and this poor guy was so hapless (and he didn't mention hotels, beer or sex, always a bonus) On top of that, I often go and talk to complete strangers and I know I'm not sleazy, so..I just figured once in a while I should give someone a chance.

    But hey, if you ever do have the balls to use that line, let me know how it goes, ok?
    Nat

    By Blogger me, at 11:46 PM  

  • ooookay - just to re-iterate, the sleazy "hey baby lets go play at your house" guy and the guy who gave me his number last weekend are not the same person..sorry, much too tired to be coherent!

    By Blogger me, at 11:50 PM  

  • 私はおサイさんにバーで声をかけられて
    今にいたるので、ナンパが全部だめとは
    おもいません。

    でも、最初からべたべたしたり、
    体目的!という感じの人たちはいやですね。

    とりあえず初日はおしゃべりだけでおわって
    次誘うときも夜ばかりじゃない人なら
    信じてもいいんじゃないかなあ??

    By Anonymous たこやき, at 12:07 AM  

  • たこやきさん、コメントありがとう! おサイさんにナンパされたと聞いたら、本当に安心しました! そうですよね、人によってちがうんですね、こういうこと。。

    アドバイスをくれてありがとう!がんばります!

    wish me luck! ;)

    nat

    By Blogger me, at 12:07 PM  

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